Working It

Work, work, work– it makes the world go round, and keeps us fulfilled <3 Last week was my first week back after the summer break.  In the years past, I have been more than ready to go back to work.  Long unstructured days with my kids, drinking too much night after night, day after day,Continue reading “Working It”

The Gift of a Lunatic: Part 2

In case you missed part 1: https://thedevildrinksvodka.com/2019/08/06/the-gift-of-a-lunatic-part-1-of-2/ The gift, finding the gift, this is where I left off. Every tough situation is a lesson or gift.  What could I learn? I set out to do some research.  I went to the city website and found the sale of the house and found their full names. Continue reading “The Gift of a Lunatic: Part 2”

Soul Work

It is Monday morning, almost 9:00 am and has been a great day so far.  I woke up at 6 and was out the door around 7 for a walk/slow jog.  Afterwards I talked to my sisters while drinking coffee and now I’m about to get ready for some appointments.  My youngest is still inContinue reading “Soul Work”

The Four Agreements: Agreement 4 – Always Do Your Best

This is the final- and possibly the most important rule yet.   When you know you are doing your best, there is no room for questioning yourself and instead of feelings of guilt and shame, there’s a feeling of peace in the heart. The teacher who teaches next to me is exemplary.  She is a phenomenalContinue reading “The Four Agreements: Agreement 4 – Always Do Your Best”

Peace and Suffering

I wasn’t planning on writing today.  Truth be told, I have some big projects that I HAVE to get done before leaving for Ohio on Friday morning, and I’m starting to feel the pressure.  All of the final projects for my class are due on Friday.  I have to develop and write up 3 elementaryContinue reading “Peace and Suffering”

The Four Agreements: Agreement 3 – Don’t Make Assumptions

Just imagine the day that you stop making assumptions with your partner and eventually with everyone else in your life.  Your way of communicating will change completely, and your relationships will no longer suffer from conflicts created by mistaken assumptions.  

Morning Routine: Peace, Happiness and Productivity

Before I get started, I have a quick celebration to share!  Today I am 128 days sober.  This is uncharted territory for me.  I am feeling strong and excited 🙂 Now that all of our summer trips are done with, I was able to start a nice morning routine and so far have been ableContinue reading “Morning Routine: Peace, Happiness and Productivity”

The Four Agreements: Agreement 2 – Don’t take anything personally.

This is my favorite chapter and the most powerful, for me.  Don’t. Take. Anything. Personally.  How can we not?  Someone yells out their pickup truck window, “Hey fatass, why don’t you pick up your pace?”   Your best friend lies to you goes out with another friend after cancelling plans.  Your boss yells at you forContinue reading “The Four Agreements: Agreement 2 – Don’t take anything personally.”

Cloudy with a Chance of Rainbows

It is Sunday morning here– and I am on day 116 alcohol free.  I am feeling pretty dang good about it too.  I just passed my biggest test to date and am probably still relishing in the feeling of success. Last Saturday my sister came up from Florida for the week.  The weekend was fullContinue reading “Cloudy with a Chance of Rainbows”

Day 107 — That Funky Feeling

What does being in a funk look like to you? To me it’s getting up late everyday, not being my best self and having a general feeling of unhappiness that affects my entire day.  It makes it hard to move and even get a shower in. I don’t have much of an opportunity to getContinue reading “Day 107 — That Funky Feeling”